While I can’t call myself an NCIS-fanatic, I do indulge in the television series. Yes, I know. I’m three seasons behind. Yes, I have seen episodes of LA and I don’t think they’re as good. My favourite characters are Abby and McGee, but if it weren’t for Ducky, I don’t think I could stomach the show. His sense of humour keeps autopsy from being nauseating for a girl who still occasionally checks and makes sure zombies aren’t under her bed.
I have to agree with Everyone Else, though. Without Gibbs, NCIS just wouldn’t be the same (and isn’t, thanks for proving our point, LA). Gibbs is a great leader, and he always goes with his gut. To Tony, Xiva, McGee, and Abby, he’s a definite father figure. And when one of his children has (or is about to) go astray, he knocks some sense into them. Literally. So, here I am. I bow my head down to the great master, because I deserve a Gibbs-slap.
Lately, I have been selfish. I complain about my weight (yesyesIknowI’mnotfat… I’m just fatter than I wish I was) and how many hours I’m working (honey, a couple months ago you’d’ve killed for 40-hours/week) and my family (…at least they love me?) and my boyfriend (I know he loves me) and my friends (okay, only a couple of them). I told myself I was going to be better. That I was going to look at the little things and be appreciative. And I haven’t been.
A couple days ago, my friend Matt bought me one of those Oreo-Milkshake-Things that they have at Wendy’s. He didn’t flounce up to me and say “HEY! I bought you ice cream!” I found it sitting on my desk, frosty and chocolaty. I knew right away it was Matt, because he’s the only one who knows I like those, and he’s at Wendy’s all the time. But when I noticed the shake (it took me a while… I had been running around) he was already working with a customer and by the time I was able to thank him, I drank half of it.
For my job, I have to smile. Even if something isn’t funny, even if I freaking-hate-your-guts. But when I saw the shake, I looked at him, and smiled for real. It was just a random act of kindness, and it meant a lot to me. When I was able to thank him, he simply smiled and said “I thought you would like it,” and kept going. I’ve been thinking about it ever sense, because even though it may have been a little thing to him, it was a big thing to me.
I wanted to share that, because I read this post on Freshly Pressed and I wanted to emphasise how important random acts of kindness are. The more I think about what Matt did, the more I realise how quickly I let myself fall back into the sinking sand, and how I need to stop being selfish (which honestly is one of my greatest pet peeves in people) and start being more selfless.
I think that the last selfless thing I did was buy Reeses just to give them away to two people I work with, just because. And that wasn’t very selfless. It was more… “You are having a bad day. Would you like a Reese? Okay, here.” Pretty pathetic, but I am going to do better. IamIamIam.
What was the last random act of kindness you performed? When you find yourself slipping into selfishness, what is the Gibbs-slap that wakes you up to reality?
Oh, and by the way, y’all are welcome to give me a good virtual Gibbs-slap.